It’s only been a couple of weeks since my Mom and stepfather visited, so it almost feels like I’m jumping the gun on posting some pictures about it. I uploaded the photos last weekend, in a fit of absurd proactivity. I should probably procrastinate and wait until March to publish the photos, so as not to set unreasonably high expectations. But maybe, just this once, I’ll post them before they start to digitally decay. It’s kind of sad when your monitor starts to smell bad from over-ripe photos that have been left in the draft folder for too long.
Laura, erstwhile Au Pair Extraordinaire, and reigning scapegoat for all that is wrong in our household for as long as I can get away with it (currently accepting the blame for missing remotes, the boys coming their hair with puree on their forks, a bed that broke a week after she left, and three missed deadlines at work), abandoned us to fend for ourselves on the 26th of December, which you may recall as the worst boxing day ever (excepting the tsunami from a few years ago - felt like a tactless moron for forgetting that when I titled the good-bye post…) Our schedule fell apart, no one slept, and I’m still not sure we didn’t misplace a 3rd child somewhere in the mix. Not quite sure if we started with 2 or 3, come to think of it. Can’t wait to get some sleep, one of these nights. Now part of the falling apart was due to everyone getting really sick, but part too was that everyone was fairly sad, and of course, angry. Angry that Laura had the gumption to leave VEGEMITE in MY HOME! I think we can all agree that Laura is currently in quite the hotseat (especially since, according to her e-mail from last Wednesday, she is now safely returned to Australia), and we shall speak no more of her in this post. I think. Still not really sure where I’m going with this. Or when I’ll stop. Doesn’t seem like the brevity fairy is smiling on me today.
So after she-who-must-not-be-mentioned-again-in-this-post abandoned us, we stayed home with the boys for a week. On the 4th, we had to go back to work, and Malin, our new scapegoat, er, Au Pair, wasn’t to arrive until the 8th. She *should* have been here on the 4th - but you know Swedish girls. She gets to the U.S., and then immediately spends 4 days living it up in New York. Bloody irresponsible if you ask me. I mean, are we really supposed to believe that she was at a 3-day Au Pair training program? Seriously?
So with our lack of available outsourcing opportunities for child care, we called up Grandma Crick and Grandpa Don, and asked if they wouldn’t be willing to come out and babysit. They obliged us, and flew out on January 1st, staying through the 7th. We had kept our Christmas decorations up until they arrived, and *most* of the presents that they had mailed to us were left wrapped under the tree. So on the morning of the the 2nd, we had Chrismass version 2, much to the boys delight.

The boys each received a wooden puzzle of their name. This is the MOST FRUSTRATING GIFT EVER, as the boys know how it is supposed to work, but don’t have the dexterity yet to get the letters back into the grooves. Nonetheless, they’re stubborn (with Katie and I as parents, it’s a miracle they weren’t born as mules), and insist on playing with their puzzles. The become instantly frustrated, and start whining and furiously signing ‘please’. I think another 6-8 weeks and they’ll be on top of it. And once they get beyond the face of enjoying these puzzles, I’m thinking we’ll glue the letters to their bedroom door.


That said, for the first week, they had an eager sucker firmly wrapped around their finger, eager to help them with their name-puzzles whenever they wanted.

Mom bought a combo-pack of flashlights - one large one, and two smaller ones (for Papa and his two boys). The boys had fun with them, and when the flash on my camera failed to fire, you could see why.



And of course, aside from the presents, the boys found ample opportunity to make my life difficult. As I carefully work to get a photo of Nicholas, suddenly it’s Mnt. Joel time, and Dexter has summit fever.

And when I set the camera down for a moment to run after Nicholas, Dexter goes to investigate. My mother, ever helpful, snapped a photo. I *might* have preferred her to pick up the camera, or the boy, but she was going to provide free baby sitting, and the camera wasn’t damaged, so I suppose I ought not to complain.

But all good things must come to and end, and Nicholas was getting very, very tired.

From there, the week went on. We took the Christmas decorations down during the boys nap. It was kind of sad, but it was January, we have to take any opportunity we can to clean up when the boys are preoccupied, so down they came. Katie even managed to get the ornaments off the Chandelier, only breaking one light bulb in the process.
Remember the chairs the boys got for Christmas? For some reason, I found Don sitting in them regularly throughout the week. He had excuses - “Nic was here when I came to sit next to him, but then he ran off”, but really I think he was just secretly happy to find a chair in which his feet touched the ground. It’s the exact inverse experience to going out to eat with Katie. She loves to find the tall chairs at places like Quiznos, because then her feet don’t touch the ground and she gets to feel like a bit less of a giant.

Lest you fear Don spent the entire time sitting in their chair, he also sat in our chair. In this case, he was teaching Dexter about football, while the Spartans made their surprisingly competitive bowl game challenge. I allowed this trash to be on our television, but the carefully cleaned the cable box and television afterward to make sure they weren’t tainted.

And of course, Don found our couch as well.

To be fair, the boys are kind of energetic, and their grandparents aren’t getting any younger. On the plus side, at least the boys have 3 sets of grandparents, giving them all a little bit more time to rest.
Rest assured, Mom was there, too. But most of these pictures were taken with her new camera, necessitating her absence from the photo.

Later in the week, 2 days after I tried to kill Dexter, they took the boys out for a walk.



This last photo from the walk is important - it’s the last shot we have of Dexter before he was viciously mauled by a root, splitting his lip and cutting his nose.

Their visit coincided with the boys being diagnosed with their first ear infection. The boys spent the week cranky and off schedule, and yet somehow their grandparents didn’t seem to mind. The boys were *so * close to talking, but not quite there yet. Maybe next week.
In the meantime, one last photo, just in case anyone doubts that Nicholas is my son:

February 5th, 2010 at 8:01 am
There is a place in Lynnwood called Fun Kuts. I take my 15 month old there and they are wonderful! They have a website you can look at. They get to sit in cars and play with all the toys they want. Also, on their first visit they put the cut hair in a little card for you to take home.
(You probably are wondering who the heck I am??? I was your nurse a couple times while the boys were in the NICU. I was big, and pregnant at the time:)
February 5th, 2010 at 11:53 am
Hey Melissa - thank you so much for the info and yes, I totally remember you. Happy to hear that the pregnancy ended well. Any time you want a play date, just let me know.
February 5th, 2010 at 10:40 pm
I love the haircuts. The boys are sooooo adorable!!! Miss you all!